Online dating without spam

Take a look at the image below.  This is what you would see at the very top of a profile page, the page where you get more information about a person.
 

The "send a message" button becomes active only when a person smiles or smiles back at you.

Notice how the "send a message" button is grayed out?  That's because on PersonalityMatch.net if someone is interested in you they have to "smile" at you first.  You get notified of who smiled at you and you can go and see who they are.  If you like what you see, you can smile back, or if you feel like it, you can send them a message.  But if you're not interested you don't have to do anything and that person will not be able to send you messages.  On PersonalityMatch.net, you won't be wasting your time going through spam sent by people you are not interested in.  You have complete privacy, and complete control over your online dating experience.